One of The Furry Tales’ friend, Lady-Mae, has been a therapy dog since September 2014 and she’s loving it! We spoke to Charissa, Lady-Mae’s human, about the work they do together at the Institute of Mental Health (IMH).
Lady’s first visit to IMH.
What’s the program under which Lady-Mae volunteers?
Lady-Mae and I have been serving with a group of Singapore Specials (streets dogs of Singapore) at IMH called Rock Sanctuary. Its mission is to promote Singapore Specials as dogs that are able to give back to society as therapy dogs.
What’s a session like and how often do you visit?
Lady-Mae and the group visit IMH once a month. The group is divided into two – one for the adult wards and the one for the children’s ward. Lady-Mae visits with the children who are institutionalized there.
A typical therapy session is about 2 hours and, depending on the number of children and dogs, the ratio is usually 1:1 (one dog for each child) or 2:1 (two dogs to one child). We believe in allowing the children to choose their dog and vice versa. The level and type of interaction also depends on the child.
Some kids like just having the dog sit next to them, while others prefer to really get into it – play fetch, get the dog to do tricks, etc. Others just want a dog to hug, pet, massage or cuddle.
Charissa and Lady-Mae with the other volunteers at Sunrise Wing.
What do you and Lady-Mae love most about these sessions?
Bringing your dog to be a therapy dog is extremely humbling and rewarding. I remember our first visit and Lady-Mae picked a boy who had low IQ and his desire was to be able to train a dog. I showed him the steps to teaching a dog to do basic commands (eg. Sit-Stay) and how to reward the dog when it does what it was suppose to do. The boy was extremely delighted and so proud of himself that when his parents came to visit, he showed them over and over again. It was very heartwarming for me because Lady-Mae was thoroughly enjoying herself. She was excited to work with him, she was playful and would obey all the commands he gave to her with great precision. That was the first time I saw my dog’s eyes light up and I saw how happy she was to work with very little reward.
What’s not so great?
While you might end your session on a very happy note, sometimes you might leave your therapy session feeling helpless. On our second visit, Lady-Mae chose a teenager to interact with. In the middle of the session, Lady-Mae decided it was time for a break and just sat at the girl’s feet. That gave me an opportunity to talk to the teen. She shared with me her troubles and why she had to be institutionalized.
Can you share a bit of what the journey has been like?
Like everything in life, becoming a good therapy dog is a journey. When Lady-Mae first started this, she was still rather shy and would approach strangers with some hesitation. She can now take me to the respective wards within the hospital, she is happy, excited and eager to meet the children. I can tell that Lady-Mae knows what is expected of her and she jumps right to work. Today, because of therapy work, Lady-Mae is less shy of strangers. When I recently lost Lady-Mae and found her, we were sitting at the vet. In spite of her recent trauma and her wounds, she got up and approached every stranger that walked into her vet’s office. No one would have guessed that I had just found my dog and that she was in distress for four days.
Any advise for newbies?
Like most people, I had some myths about what a therapy dog should be. I always thought that a therapy dog had to be very friendly to everyone. It had to be able to interact with anyone or it had to be a very confident dog. As I interacted with people who have therapy dogs and read books about it, I learnt that therapy dogs come in an array of personalities, although there are some basic requirements which are listed further down below.
One of the things that I used to tell people was that since Lady-Mae is not very eager with adult strangers, how can she be a therapy dog? A volunteer at Dog Therapy Singapore explained to me that there are some patients who don’t want a dog to come to close, while others want to really have a very excitable dog to interact with them.
Don’t expect your dog to be able to be great at doing its job at the first therapy session. Like us humans, dogs too learn on the job. The more they do it, the better they get. It’s also because both the handler and the dog knows what is expected of them.
In one of the books that I read, the advice given is not to overstretch oneself. Doing therapy work is tiring for both the handler and the dog. My advice is to volunteer once a month and allow yourself the rest of the month to enrich your dog’s life. Start easy. Manage your expectations of what your dog can do. Even if your dog is able to do an array of tricks, don’t expect it to perform them all at therapy. Instead, observe your dog, take its cue on how fast or slow it wishes to learn. Most of all, enjoy the experience together!
If you wish to be part of a dog therapy program, be prepared to set aside time and commitment. Some programs will require you to commit to a specific number of therapy sessions within a certain period of time. It’s a commitment which will require you to make time for it. Be prepared to have your dog’s temperament assessed as well. Some key behaviors that are sought after are:
1) The dog should be calm, meaning it should not get overly excited at anything that interests it.
2) In a situation where the dog is afraid, it should avoid, move away and have full confidence that its handler has complete control of any situation. The dog should never react by growling, mouthing or a bite.
3) The dog should be well socialized with men, women and children from all age groups.
4) The dog should be well socialized with other dogs. (Although, there is a dog I know who is not very well socialized with dogs but it is a great therapy dog. If you have such a dog, please make it known. The dog therapy organizations can work with you.)
Every therapy session is varied and different. My advice would be to keep an open mind and allow your dog to choose who it wants to interact with. You never know who you can encourage that day.
One word of caution, it is important for the handler not to get too involved in the problems during therapy. Offering a listening ear is sufficient. It is also important to adhere to the boundaries that is set for each therapy venue. It’s not only for you safety but also the safety of the dogs.
Lady-Mae and I will also begin volunteering with Therapy Dogs Singapore soon. Taking Lady-Mae to work once a month has given her purpose and drive, and it has made her a more confident dog. Whenever she sees me packing up my bag for a therapy session, Lady-Mae is ready to go. She’ll sit and wait at the door, ready to bring a smile to a child even if it’s for 2 hours.
At IMH, ready to rock and roll!
Through this activity, we’ve bonded on a much deeper level and I have learnt so much about connecting with my fellow humankind through my dog.
If you wish to volunteer, you may contact:
Rock Sanctuary
Email: rocksanctuary2013@gmail.com
Therapy Dogs Singapore
http://tdspore.wix.com/tdspore
Healing Paws (SOSD)
If your dog was adopted from Save Our Street Dogs (SOSD), you may volunteer with their own therapy dog programme called Healing Paws. For more information, visit their website at http://sosd.org.sg/community-outreach/healing-paws/