Fostering Lives

We invited Charissa of The Orange Chalk to share her experience in fostering dogs. Over the last few years, she, along with her own Singapore Special Lady-Mae, has been an active foster for local rescue pups.

Charissa's current pack: Roody (left) is a cutie pie and up for adoption, chilling with Toto (right), another foster dog who will go off for his homestay next month.

Charissa’s current pack: Roody (left) is a cutie pie and up for adoption, chilling with Toto (right), another foster dog who will go off for his homestay next month.

What is fostering?
Fostering is opening your home and your heart to a dog to be part of your family in a home environment until the dog finds a permanent home. Many rescuers and shelters depend on fosterers because it has been proven that it is easier for the dog to adapt into a family (from the streets, forests or construction areas where they were rescued from). The goal of fostering is to have a successful adoption.

What are some things potential fosterers need to think about?
1) It is important that everyone in the household MUST agree to take on the foster dog. If one member of the household does not agree, then hold off fostering the dog because you could do more harm then help.
2) If you don’t currently have a dog, make sure you and your family sit down and agree on rules of the house (e.g. no dogs in the bedroom or couch). Note that not all shelters will allow first-time dog owners to foster.
3) If you currently have a dog, do bring your dog to meet the foster dog. Getting your dog’s help on fostering helps tremendously.
4) Knowing your capacity and ability is important. For example, if you work long hours then, it is not advisable to foster a very active dog. Or, if you are a novice at dogmanship, then it may not be advisable to take on a dog that needs rehabilitation.

Autumn and Roody learn how to sit quietly at cafes.

Autumn and Roody learn how to sit quietly at cafes.

They key to successful fostering is clear communication with the rescuer/rehomer or the shelter that you’re volunteering with. My biggest mistake as a foster was when I took on a dog without realizing that the root problem of the dog’s behavioral issues was separation anxiety. I was working long hours at that time, and that affected the foster dog so much that she was not gaining weight. Instead, she was reducing to be skin and bones because no matter how much I fed her, she pooped it all out.

Do I need to pay for anything?
Fostering requires your time, energy and resources. Most shelters will cover the cost of vet fees. However, daily needs such as food, training treats, tick prevention or heart worm prevention may not be covered (although some shelters may pass you some tick and heartworm prevention because these are more expensive to purchase). Be prepared to fork out extra money for your foster dog.

How does fostering work?
Communicate clearly to your rehomer/shelter what limitations you may have as a foster, and that will help them to match you to a suitable dog. You may state how long you are able to foster for, although a minimum of two months is advised so that the dog has some stability.

If you can’t bring your foster dog to the vet for visits and check ups, the rehomer/shelter can arrange for other volunteers to do so.

I am quite a hands-on foster, which means that I try to be at every adoption drive that my foster dog goes to because that’s when I get to see which human might be the best fit for the dog. I also work closely with my rehomer (from Save Our Street Dogs) to give input on what kind of a family would make a good fit for the dog.

While the foster is not required to be at adoption drives, it does help your foster dog when their foster is there with them. One example was the recent adoption drive that I went with Roody, whom I’m currently fostering. He had so many inquiries that day and he did everything he was told. He showed he could Sit, Stay, Down and Come.

Dogs may also only obey someone they are acquainted with. My previous foster dog, Lulu (offically known as Luna), was so loyal that she would only sit if I gave the command. She wouldn’t sit for strangers. Lulu’s potential adopter tried many times and asked me why. I had to explain that in Lulu’s case, they had to build trust and a bond with her. Being personally present, I was able to share with her potential adopter what they could do to build a bond with this dog.

Lulu is now adopted and has been with her family for 6 weeks and I’m glad to report, they love her to bits and even though she’s dug up their garden, they have not regretted bringing her home.

Lulu (or Luna) learnt to wait by the road with Lady-Mae while the human scoops poop.

Lulu (or Luna) learnt to wait by the road with Lady-Mae while the human scoops poop.

Can you share some of your experiences? How did you first start?
I got started with fostering dogs because Lady-Mae’s brother, Brownie, was being rehomed by his family. Lady-Mae’s rescuer warned me before I took Brownie that, because he was already a year old, I had to be prepared to keep him for a longer time (as compared to cute puppies). Brownie was eventually rehomed to a wonderful family after 4 months.

Lady and her brother, Brownie, wait so very patiently at the boundary to the kitchen while food is being prepared.

Lady and her brother, Brownie, wait so very patiently at the boundary to the kitchen while food is being prepared.

Now, I volunteer for fostering because I realize that many dog owners struggle with their dogs in the initial period…some owners have shared with me they didn’t know what to do. I want to foster dogs to help people find joy in having a dog.

Charissa will share some practical tips next week on how to she eases the foster dog into her home, the boundaries she sets and the basic training she puts all her foster pups through. Let us know if you have any questions for her on fostering!

Oh, and if you’re interested in adoption little Roody, please fill out an adoption form at SOSD.

Wild Wild Wet at East Coast Park Beach

Apart from bringing The Furry Tales to swim at Sentosa beach, we sometimes go to East Coast beach for some wild wild wet fun!

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We’re ready to take on the sea! (L-R: Lulu, Kafka, Lucy, Olive, Muddy and Lady Mae)

Weekday mornings are great to head to East Coast – it is peaceful and there is no one else around. This is the time we may or may not let our dogs off leash and let them swim and play in the sea. We find weekends too crowded for off leash play.

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Frolicking! (L-R: Muddy, Hyper and Lucy)

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Having a ball of a time!

One time we were there, a few of the dogs ran up one of the break waters and went halfway down the other side. Good thing they came back up. Otherwise we weren’t prepared to go chasing them!

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Olive running (away) on the break water.

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Lucy the Seal

If you go with friends, you can do what we do and pack a picnic. If you’re lazy, you can pack some food from the East Coast Park Lagoon Food Village (opens around 10.30am). After the dogs have their fun and are washed and clean, we sit down at one of the stone tables to enjoy sandwiches and a hot thermos of coffee. By the time you are done, the dogs should be nice and dry and ready to go home.

That doesn’t happen for us though. The dogs seem to know when they are clean and don’t like to be. So just when we are ready to leave, some of them will jump right into the water again, followed by a roll in the sand.

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Lucy rolling in the sand before going home.

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Both Lady-Mae and Lucy showing off their sexy legs here.

One thing to take note of: beware of chicken bones when you do! Each time we’ve been here, our dogs inevitably find chicken bone scattered thoughtlessly on the sand. Because Lucy kept running away with a bone in her mouth each time she went to East Coast, Sisi was motivated to teach her the “Leave it” and “Drop it” commands. (Hopefully the next time she picks up a bone, the “drop it” command will leave her spitting it out automatically.)

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Muddy, Olive and Lucy digging their way to more exotic places like South America. Or just looking for chicken bones!

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Group shot!

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Til we meet again, East Coast Beach!

Jumper Trial: Dogs Had Fun Despite Nerve-Racked Humans!

Contributed by Vicky Ti
Sisi and I tried out some basic jumper training with our dogs last year, but got lazy this year and took a 6-month break. However, we got off our butts and started again last month and challenged ourselves on Sunday with a pre-novice trial by Singapore Kennel Club (SKC)!

We arrived at West Coast Park dog run pretty stressed, thinking there would be about ten obstacles for our dogs to clear (to be fair, we had only been stringing four to six obstacles together up til our last practice, where we attempted ten obstacles, and that didn’t go very well)…and found out it was a challenging course of TWENTY OBSTACLES!!! Some hyperventilating may have happened, as well as some nausea and near-fainting.

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Bunny Lucy and her floppy ears! (Photo by Mr Wong Seng Wai’s son)

While the humans were busy having a meltdown, our dogs had fun speeding around the park and making new friends. We were a little worried they would be too tired for the trial, but on the other hand, it was good for them to run off some excess energy.

I like to jump sideways, anything wrong with that?? (Photo by Mr Wong Seng Wai's son)

I like to jump sideways, anything wrong with that?? (Photo by Mr Wong Seng Wai’s son)

The dogs did extremely well, considering the fact that they had never been in a tunnel this long and opaque before, they had never jumped through a life buoy hoop frame before, and that this was their longest course to date. The humans didn’t mess up as badly as we thought we would either, and all in all it was a great experience in retrospect.

Here’s Sisi and Lucy having fun.

Olive likes to clear her jumps with loads of margin to spare. I think she’s part antelope!

I know it looks pretty good…but here are the parts where we messed up! Haha.

Olive never completed going all the way through the long yellow tunnel and kept popping up behind me while I was on my hands and knees, making a fool of myself! Hey, anything for our dogs, right?

Thanks Alan from Pawsitive Mind for training us! We enjoyed it thoroughly and will be joining another trial this year!

More photos here: https://www.facebook.com/elsa.soo/posts/10206549875839661

Purina ONE DOGA x Causes for Animals = Fun and Cuteness!

Last Sunday, The Furry Tales stretched and strengthened our cores with our pooches at the Purina ONE DOGA event. Over 50 dogs and more than 60 people participated in setting Singapore’s record for the largest mass exercise with animals – yay! Tanya, instructor at InOm Yoga, and her calm assistant Muddy led the doga session in support for Causes for Animals. They did an awesome job!
Everyone enjoyed themselves on the mat, and there was a noticeable difference in the dogs’ energy levels from the beginning of the session to the end.

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Even some really active puppies like this cutie managed to calm down and relax.

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A nice back stretch for the humans.

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Olive being a good prop for mama to stretch.

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Lucy is completely relaxed like jello!

Participants that didn’t have their own dog were paired up with shelter or rescued pups (we love the concept of this!), which made for a whole lot of adorable! An adoption drive followed the doga session where we met plenty of cuties.

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Awww, Heart Melt! (Photo Credit to Michiez Chua Photography)

Hope to see you at our next Zen Your Pups doga event, on 26 September! More details will follow closer to date, so keep a look out for that. In the meantime, The Furry Tales will be having a pack walk to celebrate Singapore’s National Day on 7 August – find out more here.

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Check out The Furry Tales’ logo on the poster!

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Our dogs look sooo good in their SG50 scarves!

Thank you Purina One for organizing this awesome event!

Thank you Purina One for organizing this awesome event!

For more photos of Purina ONE DOGA, head here.

Socializing on a Pack Walk

Contributed by Vicky Ti
I’ll be honest. Olive is not the easiest dog in the world to manage, and two years on, I sometimes wonder if it was the right decision to adopt her. She is a mongrel with a controversial past (which we won’t go into right now), bad genetics (out of her litter of six, the three females are aggressive, and one of her brothers put someone in the hospital with stitches) and possesses several behavioral issues. I’ll just briefly mention two of her issues here: firstly, she doesn’t like strangers touching her and will snap, and secondly, she is reactive to stranger dogs and will do the whole hackles, growling and lunging thing if left unchecked. I have been working consistently with her over the last two years on this using a variety of methods, but primarily by stuffing her face with food when she meets her triggers and rewarding her for acceptable responses. The going has been slow.

BUT…
Over the last few months, The Furry Tales have been more active in going out to dog events and having our dogs meet many strangers (both humans and dogs), and I believe this has helped Olive a lot. She seems to have mellowed slightly in her reactivity, especially towards humans. If she is alone, she will still bark at people coming up to us directly and won’t allow them to touch her, but at these events, she lets her guard down and several people do end up patting her without eliciting a reaction from her. If she is alone, she is still bad with dogs approaching us, but at the group events, she is less reactive and manages to meet and greet many dogs without issue.

Look at Olive going up to sniff Pebbles at our Zen Your Pups event a few weeks back!

Look at Olive going up to sniff Pebbles at our Zen Your Pups event a few weeks back!

Over the last few months, she’s had more ‘good’ days where the waiter can come up to our table and she doesn’t bark, where men jog past her too close for comfort and she doesn’t snap, and where we walk through crowded areas and she’s not as nervous. She is more manageable when she sees stranger dogs and has decreased her ‘threshold’ distance where she will walk past them and ignore if they are not too close. While I’m sure this is partly due to training, I’m also very sure that mass social events have helped.

Having said that, The Furry Tales are organizing a pack walk in collaboration with Rao Canine, to celebrate Singapore’s 50th JUBILEE year together! This will be a great chance to socialize your dogs, meet new friends and enjoy a stroll along the Singapore River. Dog trainer Fern says that “walking dogs together in a group is the single best way to help dogs achieve a calm state of mind in the presence of what normally causes them to react. By keeping dogs moving together you unify them, bond them as pack mates, and give them a non-confrontational positive experience around people and dogs.”

Details are as follows:

Walk Your Pups Flyer 2015-0701Date: Friday 7 August 2015 (public holiday)
Time: 5pm – 7pm
Route: Meeting at Fort Canning Green at 5pm. Walk through Fort Canning Park to the Singapore River. Quick pit stop at the Asian Civilization Museum before heading back to Fort Canning Green.
Cost: $15/pup – includes goodie bag worth more than $15 plus an exclusive SG50 scarf (U.P. $18), with the option of embroidering your pup’s name for $3!

Sign up by 2 August HERE.

Back to Olive – while I do get tired occasionally of dealing with her issues (especially during those special times of the month), she is very manageable through consistent training. She is also intelligent and bright. My husband and I can’t imagine coming home without having her to greet us at the door. She is a delight at home and always makes us smile with her antics, and she loves to joke around.

Our Dogs Know Us

“Whoever said that diamonds are a girl’s best friend never owned a dog.”  This rings so true for us dog owners. Our dogs are more than just our dogs. They are family.

1. Dogs know when you’re sad.
Lucy always knows when Sisi is sad. She hops up onto her lap and stares into her eyes or gives her face extra kisses.

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I will hug you till you feel better!

When Vivien talks to us about anything that upsets her and Kafka happens to be around, he senses it and starts whimpering and putting his face onto her lap.

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You be ok mama?

2. Dogs love us for (or in spite of) who we are.
A dog doesn’t care if we’re rich or poor, illiterate or educated, good-looking or not so good-looking. They love us even when we’re crazy. They love us unconditionally.

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We’re not crazy. We’re not.

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Lucy is totally not judging us. She loves us!

3. Dogs heal.
Many studies have shown that dogs can sniff out illnesses like cancer, probably because they have such a keen sense of smell. Many dogs are also known to help people suffering from PTSD or other traumatic incidences. Just like how Lady-Mae is a therapy dog at IMH.

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Lady Mae with her fellow therapy dog pals,    bringing smiles to patients at IMH.

4. Dogs reduce stress and increase our happiness levels.
“Because of the dog’s joyfulness, our own is increased. It is no small gift.” Some people get a dog not knowing how much they really need one. It has been said that dogs have a way of finding people who need them and filling an emptiness they didn’t even know they had. We agree.

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I love you, mama. Even when I am naughty. Even when you are scary.

And according to WebMD, stroking your dog feels good – it can lower your blood pressure, helps your body release a relaxation hormone, and cuts down on levels of a stress hormone.

5. Dogs know when we are coming home.
It’s pretty amazing how some dogs sit by the door 30 minutes before you walk through it. Sometimes Lucy gets up suddenly and sits by the door as if there is someone there, only to have her papa walk though it only 20 minutes later. How do they know?

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I knew it was you..

Kith Cafe at Park Mall

The Furry Tales head to Kith at Park Mall every once in awhile because it is within walking distance from Fort Canning Park which we enjoy quite often. And we are usually ravenous by the time we are done with our walk or sometimes doga in the park, so Park Mall (Penang Road) is as far as we can go without fainting from hunger.

Kith at Park Mall has a much more extensive menu than the one at Robertson Quay, with a more chi chi vibe. It is a little pricier too but the food is really decent with daily lunch specials.

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                      Kith’s alfresco area

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  Super yummy squid ink lunch special

We like Kith because it is shaded and they provide our dogs with bowls of water without us having to ask (extra points for loving our pooches!). There’s also quite a lot of space in their alfresco area so even when we go with 4-6 dogs, we don’t feel like we are imposing on other patrons who may not like dogs.

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We were so ready to tuck into this well-presented food! (But no, had to take pictures first.) Top left: salmon salad with avocado. Top right: squid ink pasta. Bottom: aglio olio

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Muddy and Lucy lounging next to our table

Kith is located at Penang Road #01-01E, Park Mall. Open 8am – 10pm Tuesday to Sunday (closed on Monday). Reservations may be made at (+65) 6338 8611.

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                 Full bellies= Happy faces